iamyaelsantos on RAW Social

so my boyfriend and i had a fight last night because i asked him to just LISTEN and not immediately jump to solutions. i don't need you to fix the problem babe. i need you to sit with me in it for like five minutes. he stared at me like i asked him to speak a foreign language. twenty minutes later he texted me a youtube video about 'communication in relationships.' the self-awareness is not where it needs to be